Blame might feel satisfying for a moment, but it drives a wedge between you and your partner. Stuck in the Blame Game Does this sound familiar? One of you says, “This is your fault,” and the other fires back with, “No, it’s yours!” Every argument becomes a tennis...
“Counseling felt great… until we got home.” The After-Therapy Slump Walking out of a counseling session, you feel hopeful. In the therapist’s office, you communicated better than you have in ages. You understood each other, maybe even held hands on the way to the car....
FollowFollowFollowFollow “Losing the spark doesn’t mean you don’t love each other; it means you’ve lost the feeling of being deeply connected.” From Sizzle to Fizzle There was a time when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other, when just talking for hours...
FollowFollowFollowFollow “When one person carries the relationship, eventually their back – and heart – start to break.” The Weight of One-Sided Love Being the one who always plans the dates, initiates the tough talks, apologizes first, or remembers the...
Walking on Eggshells It’s a scene all too familiar: you’re about to bring up something that’s bothering you, but you catch yourself thinking, “Better not— it’ll just start a fight.” So you swallow your words. Your partner does the same. Over time, your home becomes a...
In the journey of love, we sometimes forget to ask the questions that truly matter. Here are 5 Imago-inspired questions to open your heart and create a safe space: What do you most long to hear from me when you’re hurting? What helps you feel most emotionally...
