Latest Insights on Relationship Growth
You Can Still Love Each Other and Keep Missing Each Other
Some couples still care and still miss each other. Three days in Pretoria, 9-11 October 2026, teach a shared way to work on the relationship.
Why Your Partner’s Tone Hits Like a Memory
Why a partner’s tone can feel like an old wound — and how Imago Dialogue turns that hit into a chance to heal.
The Five Differences That Drive Every Couple Mad
Money, mess, time, feelings, sex. Every couple fights about them. None of these fights are actually about what they seem to be about.
Why You Married Someone So Different From You
Why You Married Someone So Different From You You didn’t pick the wrong person. The differences between you and your partner are not the…
The Fight You Keep Having (And What It’s Trying to Tell You)
The same argument, on repeat, is not a failure. It’s your relationship trying to get your attention. Here’s how to hear what it’s saying.
Three days That Change How You Fight, Love, and See Each Other
What actually happens at the Getting the Love You Want workshop, who comes, why it holds where other things don’t — and how to book your place.
You Didn’t Stop Trying. The Space Between You Stopped Feeling Safe.
Discover why couples drift apart even when they still love each other – and take a free 3-minute quiz to measure the real health of your relationship.
How to Be Close Again Without Feeling Trapped
One couple’s journey from pursue-withdraw exhaustion to a simple evening ritual that brought closeness without suffocation. Discover the pattern – and…
This Valentine’s, Give Each Other the Gift of Mastering Love
This Valentine’s, skip what fades and give what lasts. Discover why couples intensives are for growth and celebration – not just crisis.
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About Imago Relationship Therapy
Imago Relationship Therapy is a powerful approach designed to help individuals and couples enhance their relationships by fostering deeper understanding and connection. Developed by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., this therapy focuses on transforming conflict into opportunities for growth and healing. At Imago Relationship Kobus van der Merwe, we are dedicated to providing professional help for relationships in crisis. Our mission is to guide clients towards conscious, loving relationships through tailored sessions, workshops, and intensives that address specific relational challenges. By focusing on communication and empathy, Imago Therapy empowers clients to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
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