Latest Insights on Relationship Growth

The Five Differences That Drive Every Couple Mad

Money, mess, time, feelings, sex. Every couple fights about them. None of these fights are actually about what they seem to be about.

Why You Married Someone So Different From You

Why You Married Someone So Different From You You didn’t pick the wrong person. The differences between you and your partner are not the problem — they are the point. You didn’t pick the wrong person. You picked the right one for the wrong reason….

The Fight You Keep Having (And What It’s Trying to Tell You)

The same argument, on repeat, is not a failure. It’s your relationship trying to get your attention. Here’s how to hear what it’s saying.

Three days That Change How You Fight, Love, and See Each Other

What actually happens at the Getting the Love You Want workshop, who comes, why it holds where other things don’t — and how to book your place.

You Didn’t Stop Trying. The Space Between You Stopped Feeling Safe.

Discover why couples drift apart even when they still love each other – and take a free 3-minute quiz to measure the real health of your relationship.

How to Be Close Again Without Feeling Trapped

One couple’s journey from pursue-withdraw exhaustion to a simple evening ritual that brought closeness without suffocation. Discover the pattern – and the solution.

This Valentine’s, Give Each Other the Gift of Mastering Love

This Valentine’s, skip what fades and give what lasts. Discover why couples intensives are for growth and celebration – not just crisis.

Love Is a Verb: The Imago Approach to Creating Safety, Connection, and Joy

Discover Imago Relationship Therapy’s approach to love as intentional practice – through dialogue, safety, and daily behaviours that create lasting connection.

From Falling in Love to Choosing Love: The Journey to Real Intimacy

Discover why the fading of romantic chemistry isn’t the end of love – it’s the invitation to something deeper. Learn the three stages every relationship travels.

The Science Is Clear: Love Is the Best Medicine

Discover why 87 years of research confirms your relationship is the most powerful predictor of health and happiness – and what to do about it.

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Communication Skills

Conflict Resolution

Emotional Intimacy

Parenting Together

Self-Discovery

Trust Building

Healing Past Wounds

Mindful Connection

What Our Clients Are Saying

“Imago Relationship Therapy has truly transformed our marriage. We learned how to communicate effectively and understand each other on a deeper level. It’s been a life-changing experience.”

John and Sarah M.

Married Couple

“As a single person, I found the individual sessions incredibly empowering. The therapy helped me gain insights into my past relationships and prepared me for healthier future connections.”

Emily R.

Individual Client

“The workshops offered by Imago Relationship Therapy were eye-opening. We left feeling more connected and equipped with tools to nurture our relationship. Highly recommend it!”

Michael and Lisa K.

Workshop Participants

About Imago Relationship Therapy

Imago Relationship Therapy is a powerful approach designed to help individuals and couples enhance their relationships by fostering deeper understanding and connection. Developed by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D., this therapy focuses on transforming conflict into opportunities for growth and healing. At Imago Relationship Kobus van der Merwe, we are dedicated to providing professional help for relationships in crisis. Our mission is to guide clients towards conscious, loving relationships through tailored sessions, workshops, and intensives that address specific relational challenges. By focusing on communication and empathy, Imago Therapy empowers clients to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

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