Couples Intensive: two private days in Pretoria with Kobus van der Merwe
When every attempt to talk brings you back to the same argument, it can be hard to know what to do next. Spend two private days with Kobus van der Merwe in Pretoria, with guided time to understand what is happening between you and practise conversations that help each of you be heard.
What the two days are for
Private, the couple and Kobus only, not a group.
- Slow down the argument that keeps repeating, so each of you can see what happens between you when it starts.
- See what keeps happening between you in it.
- Look at the pattern between you, including how earlier life shows up in what happens between you now.
- Practise a structured way of talking (Imago Dialogue), in which one partner speaks, the other listens and reflects back what they heard, and then you swap.
- Use that structure on topics that matter to you, with Kobus guiding the conversation as it happens.
- Leave with a way of talking you have practised together and can keep using at home.
No one can promise how a relationship will turn out. The two days give you focused time, guidance and practice.
Weekday and weekend
Weekday and weekend are the same two-day format. Only the fee differs.
Weekday Intensive R19,999 per couple.
Enquire about available datesWeekend Intensive R27,000 per couple.
Enquire about available datesA non-refundable deposit of R5,500, by EFT or cash, one week before.
Before you enquire
The intensive is held at 218 Cornus Street, La Montagne, Pretoria. It is private, not a group workshop: the couple and Kobus only.
A partner who is unsure can read this page, and either person can enquire before committing. The form below does not ask for a clinical story. Previous therapy is welcome. Clinical history stays in the confidential intake.
After an enquiry, contact is on the channel you choose, about dates, and then the R5,500 deposit.
The Clarity Consultation is a different service. It is not a booking for this intensive.
Enquire about available dates
Either person can send this. Share dates that suit you both. Leave personal and clinical details for the confidential intake.
Your enquiry has been sent. We will contact you on the channel you chose.