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When ‘Doing’ and ‘Being’ Clash in a Relationship: A Couples Therapy Insight

When ‘Doing’ and ‘Being’ Clash in a Relationship: A Couples Therapy Insight

by Kobus van der Merwe | May 6, 2025 | Couples, Intensives, Uncategorised

When ‘Doing’ and ‘Being’ Clash in a Relationship: A Couples Therapy Insight In couples therapy, few dynamics are as common—and as misunderstood—as the clash between “doing” and “being” energy. One partner is always...
Why Talking is Dangerous (And Listening Could Save Your Relationship)

Why Talking is Dangerous (And Listening Could Save Your Relationship)

by Kobus van der Merwe | Mar 6, 2025 | Blog, Dialogue

Speak without criticism (yes, it’s possible!) Listen without judgment (imagine that! Ever felt like talking with your partner is like entering a minefield without a map? You’re not alone. According to relationship experts Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt,...
Is Your Relationship Striving for Independence or True Connection? Couples Counselling Offers a New Path

Is Your Relationship Striving for Independence or True Connection? Couples Counselling Offers a New Path

by Kobus van der Merwe | Feb 25, 2025 | Blog, Couples

Imago Therapy, a modern approach gaining traction in relationship therapy, doesn’t just tweak conventional marriage counselling advice; it presents a paradigm shift. For years, the ideal of a “healthy relationship” has been sold as two independent...
How Couples Therapy Works: Heal and Rebuild Relationships

How Couples Therapy Works: Heal and Rebuild Relationships

by Kobus van der Merwe | Feb 5, 2025 | Blog, Couples

In therapy, couples aren’t asked to fix each other. Instead, they learn how to transform that shared space into a place where intimacy and trust can flourish again. You could say the relationship itself becomes the client. Restoring Connection and Healing in the Space...
Your Relationship Is More Than Your Pain and Frustrations

Your Relationship Is More Than Your Pain and Frustrations

by Kobus van der Merwe | Jan 29, 2025 | Blog, Intensives

Rather than forcing a solution to every conflict, trust that your consistent presence and attunement naturally guide you toward resolution. Even the strongest relationships encounter difficulty. Moments of disagreement, pain, and frustration can sometimes feel like...
Marriage in Trouble? If You’re Suffering, It’s on You—Here’s Why

Marriage in Trouble? If You’re Suffering, It’s on You—Here’s Why

by Kobus van der Merwe | Jan 20, 2025 | Couples

When your marriage feels like it’s unraveling—when conflict is constant, your partner seems like a stranger, or the love feels dead—it’s easy to point fingers. Maybe you blame your spouse for being unresponsive, critical, or distant. Maybe you blame the pressures of...
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