Welcome to the website of Kobus van der Merwe, M.A., a dedicated expert in Imago Relationship Therapy. If your relationship feels broken, if conflict and distance have taken over the love you once shared, you’ve come to the right place. With over 23,000 hours of couples therapy and 30 years of experience, I specialize in helping couples in crisis rebuild trust, repair emotional wounds, and rediscover connection. Using proven Imago techniques, I’ll guide you to transform your relationship into a partnership of understanding, passion, and lasting love. Together, we’ll take the first step toward rescuing and renewing your relationship.
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Kobus van der Merwe M.A.
Certified Imago Relationship Clinical Therapist
Our Relationship – A Journey of Love and Growth For 33 years, Anita and I have embarked on a journey of love and connection. By embracing Imago Dialogue, we’ve deepened our understanding and strengthened our bond. Anita is not only my partner but also my inspiration, reminding me daily of the beauty and potential of a conscious relationship.
Healing Together: A Transformative 3-Day Journey for Struggling Couples
Every relationship faces challenges, but some moments feel like the end of the road. The Imago Couples Intensive is your chance to turn things around. In just three days, you’ll experience powerful breakthroughs, learn practical communication skills, and start a new chapter of intimacy and understanding.
Real Love
Romantic love is the glue that bonds us initially, but real love emerges through conscious efforts to heal and connect.
Additional Imago Therapy Services Offered
Getting The Love You Want Couples Workshop
Join our immersive workshop designed to help couples rediscover love and understanding. Through guided exercises and expert facilitation, you’ll learn to communicate effectively and deepen your connection.
Online Couples Workshop
Experience the benefits of Imago Relationship Therapy from the comfort of your home. Our online workshops provide the same transformative insights and skills to enhance your relationship.
Imago Couples Sessions
Engage in personalized sessions tailored to your unique relationship needs. Our expert guidance will help you navigate challenges, heal emotional wounds, and build a stronger partnership.
Keeping The Love You Find Workshops for Singles
Discover how to cultivate healthy, fulfilling relationships as a single individual. Our workshops offer valuable insights into personal growth and preparing for future partnerships.
When ‘Doing’ and ‘Being’ Clash in a Relationship: A Couples Therapy Insight
When couples get stuck in patterns of one partner always doing and the other always needing presence, it’s not a failure—it’s a signal. This article explores how Imago Therapy helps partners understand the deeper needs behind these patterns, turning frustration into connection and polarity into partnership.